I've been taking this philosophy in film class this summer. It's probably one of the most challenging classes I've ever taken, but one of my favorites. I looked forward to it every day. The class ended with a succession of presentations done by us classmates. There were seven of us. I was the only girl. Not only was I the only girl, I was the last to present.
Most of the boys did religious-esque films. Life of Brian, Apocalypto. One boy did the film "Juice" starring Tupac, which for whatever reason brought out the gangster in all of the boys in the class. I ended up doing the film "All I wanna do!" which is a feminist film, set in 1963. It was between that, or Boondock Saints. I could tell my professor wanted me to do the feminist film, so I went ahead and presented feminism to a group of boys.
It went better than expected, I got some of the expected questions "why do girls dress slutty, knowing men are visual creatures?" "Aren't women basically oppressing themselves and each other at this point?" But one remark killed me. Made me stop the film and get into a direct confrontation with a boy. (who is actually going for a philosophy major. He better check himself.)
There is a scene in the film where the headmistress has a monologue discussing the years of oppression she has faced, urging a female student to go forth and lead. To promote change. It ends with the headmistress shaking the girl's hand with a firm handshake. The boy in my class commented "wow, that woman has such masculine hands." with a chuckle at the end.
I quickly considered my options. Should I let it go? Treat it as a passing remark and leave it at that? I was seething, but I contemplated staying quiet. Then I realized that's exactly what women have been doing since the beginning. Staying quiet. If I wanted to be like the strong women I've seen and I look up to, I need to learn how to speak up.
I paused the movie and said "That. that right there is the proof I needed to lecture feminism to a classroom full of boys. This woman just poured her heart out about the oppression she faces, and you degraded it down to the size of her hands. This is why we still need feminism." He came back with, "if I were to dress up, have my eyebrows and fingernails meticulously pampered, and went to shake hands with another man, he would look the other way. Judge me like you think I judged her. It's the same thing."
The argument went on for a few more minutes between myself and him. My professor joined in as well, trying to let him know that it wasn't the same thing. This is why the world needs feminism and feminists. No matter what positions women hold, we will still be reduced to what we look like. We witnessed this in the 2008 election, when Sarah Palin's pantsuit budget was a hot topic of discussion. We witnessed it a week or so ago when people dogged on senator Wendy Davis for her outfit not matching. Above rape culture, above slut shaming, above fat and thin shaming, we need feminism because women need to stop being reduced to what we look like and start being held accountable for what we are able to achieve. And we are able to achieve great things.
I know these boys went home thinking they are right and that women are just whiny bitches. Little did they know, that they fanned a spark into a huge flame, and I'll be damned if I don't add my voice to the millions of other women's voices that demand to be heard. I am that radical liberal "feminazi" I used to make fun of, and you have every reason to be afraid.
Friday, July 5, 2013
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Hillary is about to Hulk Smash some shit.
Let's start off this ranting post with a bit of good news.
DOMA and Prop 8 were overturned!! This a HUUUUGE step in the right direction for equality for homosexuals in America and I am so happy that this was overturned. It's about damn time we started recognizing homosexuals and transexuals as real human beings and giving them some rights.
THAT BEING SAID. There has been a HUGE injustice on women in the past few days. As excited as I am for the LGBT community and their win today, I am equally as pissed off for my fellow women and their issues going on in Texas (as well as TWELVE other states in the U.S.) Yep. I'm talking about Wendy Davis, Senator Van De Putte (I cannot find her first name, damn it), and this whole abortion bill filibuster thing.
Here's the shit most people know about it; Wendy Davis got up and talked on topic for 13 FUCKING HOURS STRAIGHT. She COULD NOT have water, food, go off topic, go to the bathroom, lean on anything, sit down, NOTHING. She got hit with a warning for someone adjusting her back-brace for her. Wendy, this wonder-woman, shared her own personal story of why women need abortion clinics and planned parenthoods, and she shared the stories of countless other women to keep a vote from happening that would SHUT DOWN these clinics, restrict abortions to before 20 weeks, and set strict standards for the remaining clinics. Oh, and it would restrict the use of drugs to end pregnancy. Yep, even though there are medications you can take to terminate a pregnancy early on, these asshats would rather doctors go in there the old-fashioned, incredibly intrusive way. How fucking quaint.
Wendy WON her filibuster, with the help of the people in the gallery screaming and shouting and causing a ruckus so no one could vote. HOWEVER, the Texas Governor Rick Perry called for a special legislative to reconsider the proposal. And this is happening July 1st. Gov. Rick Perry was quoted saying "Texans value life and want to protect women and the unborn, we will not allow the breakdown of decorum and decency to prevent us from doing what the people of this state hired us to do." BECAUSE SAVING WOMEN'S LIVES IS BREAKING DOWN DECORUM AND DECENCY. Totally. That makes perfect sense. You know what Rick Perry? FUCK YOU. We dealt with this shit back in 1973 with Roe v. Wade. WHY ARE WE GOING BACK?! WHY?!
Speaking of going back, while the whole nation was focusing on Texas and Wendy, our lovely government edited the Voting Rights Act. This act was put in place back in the 60's to keep people from being douche-bags and keeping minorities from voting. This is a link that will explain it better than I ever could. And in that link it explains why editing this act is fucking outrageous. States have closing polls in minority districts and zoning districts so minority-supported candidates can't get voted in. What the fuck?! And people still think America is over racism. SPOILER ALERT! We're not. Another clue that we're not over racism? This fucking Paula Deen scandal.
Paula Deen has been fired from the Food Network because she used racial slurs and wanted to plan a Civil War themed wedding, complete with middle aged African-American waitstaff. Wait, what? Sure, Paula Deen is a privileged white woman from the south who grew up during the Civil Rights movement. Does that excuse her for using racial slurs? NO IT FUCKING DOESN'T. In fact, I think it makes it worse for her to say it. When she grew up, it was most definitely an insult to use racial slurs. And, perhaps more hurtful. Oh and a Civil War themed wedding?! Who the fuck wants a war themed wedding to begin with?! If you want an era themed wedding, that's one thing. Someone can say "I want a 1940's themed wedding!" but you don't hear them say "I want a World War II themed wedding complete with nazis, genocides, and bombings!" No, no that wouldn't happen. So why would someone actually want a Civil War wedding with slavery undertones? (and by "undertones" I mean SLAVERY THROWN IN YOUR FUCKING FACE.) If you can't tell, I most certainly stand behind the Food Network, and I sincerely hope that stores start pulling Paula Deen products off the shelves. I haven't bought her shit before, and I'm certainly not doing it now.
AMERICA. WHY THE FUCK ARE WE TAKING STEPS BACK?!
DOMA and Prop 8 were overturned!! This a HUUUUGE step in the right direction for equality for homosexuals in America and I am so happy that this was overturned. It's about damn time we started recognizing homosexuals and transexuals as real human beings and giving them some rights.
THAT BEING SAID. There has been a HUGE injustice on women in the past few days. As excited as I am for the LGBT community and their win today, I am equally as pissed off for my fellow women and their issues going on in Texas (as well as TWELVE other states in the U.S.) Yep. I'm talking about Wendy Davis, Senator Van De Putte (I cannot find her first name, damn it), and this whole abortion bill filibuster thing.
Here's the shit most people know about it; Wendy Davis got up and talked on topic for 13 FUCKING HOURS STRAIGHT. She COULD NOT have water, food, go off topic, go to the bathroom, lean on anything, sit down, NOTHING. She got hit with a warning for someone adjusting her back-brace for her. Wendy, this wonder-woman, shared her own personal story of why women need abortion clinics and planned parenthoods, and she shared the stories of countless other women to keep a vote from happening that would SHUT DOWN these clinics, restrict abortions to before 20 weeks, and set strict standards for the remaining clinics. Oh, and it would restrict the use of drugs to end pregnancy. Yep, even though there are medications you can take to terminate a pregnancy early on, these asshats would rather doctors go in there the old-fashioned, incredibly intrusive way. How fucking quaint.
Wendy WON her filibuster, with the help of the people in the gallery screaming and shouting and causing a ruckus so no one could vote. HOWEVER, the Texas Governor Rick Perry called for a special legislative to reconsider the proposal. And this is happening July 1st. Gov. Rick Perry was quoted saying "Texans value life and want to protect women and the unborn, we will not allow the breakdown of decorum and decency to prevent us from doing what the people of this state hired us to do." BECAUSE SAVING WOMEN'S LIVES IS BREAKING DOWN DECORUM AND DECENCY. Totally. That makes perfect sense. You know what Rick Perry? FUCK YOU. We dealt with this shit back in 1973 with Roe v. Wade. WHY ARE WE GOING BACK?! WHY?!
Speaking of going back, while the whole nation was focusing on Texas and Wendy, our lovely government edited the Voting Rights Act. This act was put in place back in the 60's to keep people from being douche-bags and keeping minorities from voting. This is a link that will explain it better than I ever could. And in that link it explains why editing this act is fucking outrageous. States have closing polls in minority districts and zoning districts so minority-supported candidates can't get voted in. What the fuck?! And people still think America is over racism. SPOILER ALERT! We're not. Another clue that we're not over racism? This fucking Paula Deen scandal.
Paula Deen has been fired from the Food Network because she used racial slurs and wanted to plan a Civil War themed wedding, complete with middle aged African-American waitstaff. Wait, what? Sure, Paula Deen is a privileged white woman from the south who grew up during the Civil Rights movement. Does that excuse her for using racial slurs? NO IT FUCKING DOESN'T. In fact, I think it makes it worse for her to say it. When she grew up, it was most definitely an insult to use racial slurs. And, perhaps more hurtful. Oh and a Civil War themed wedding?! Who the fuck wants a war themed wedding to begin with?! If you want an era themed wedding, that's one thing. Someone can say "I want a 1940's themed wedding!" but you don't hear them say "I want a World War II themed wedding complete with nazis, genocides, and bombings!" No, no that wouldn't happen. So why would someone actually want a Civil War wedding with slavery undertones? (and by "undertones" I mean SLAVERY THROWN IN YOUR FUCKING FACE.) If you can't tell, I most certainly stand behind the Food Network, and I sincerely hope that stores start pulling Paula Deen products off the shelves. I haven't bought her shit before, and I'm certainly not doing it now.
AMERICA. WHY THE FUCK ARE WE TAKING STEPS BACK?!
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
Big things are happening
I never write in here anymore. I write in my notebook at least twice a day, but that shit is just too personal for the internet. Maybe one day...
ANYWHOSER. I am in my last week of my first semester of college EVER. Finals have been a bitch (specifically algebra) and I'm about 100% certain I am failing algebra, but nevertheless I AM SO EXCITED. Then I start my super awesome summer philosophy course. Philosophy in Films. I cannot wait. CAN. NOT. WAIT.
Other than those things, there are other big, big, BIG things happening in the life of Hillary. However, they are waaay too personal and too new to put on the internet.
Please be on stand by for a real post later in life.
ANYWHOSER. I am in my last week of my first semester of college EVER. Finals have been a bitch (specifically algebra) and I'm about 100% certain I am failing algebra, but nevertheless I AM SO EXCITED. Then I start my super awesome summer philosophy course. Philosophy in Films. I cannot wait. CAN. NOT. WAIT.
Other than those things, there are other big, big, BIG things happening in the life of Hillary. However, they are waaay too personal and too new to put on the internet.
Please be on stand by for a real post later in life.
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Let's discuss the Book of Leviticus.
Today is NATIONAL EPILEPSY DAY! But, its also the day that marriage equality goes up against the supreme court. Which is more important in most eyes (however I'm reppin' Epilepsy day for my dear sister.)
BECAAAAAUSE it is this huge day for equality, I've been seeing some Leviticus thrown around all willy nilly. Which pisses me off to no end. There is plenty, and I do mean P-L-E-N-T-Y of shit in Leviticus (and all of Old Testament to be honest) that we do on a daily bases that God says is "banned".
Background story time; so the book of Leviticus is found in the Old Testament of today's bible between the books of Exodus and Numbers. This was also before the birth and death of Jesus, when God appears to be very vengeful. When Jesus died, he cleared us of our sins and made the "laws" of the Old Testament more like moral guidelines for his followers. Before Jesus, you had to make sacrifices and such before you could get into heaven. After Jesus, you have to accept him into your heart (or be saved) and you're in. Some believe you have to confess or apologize for your sins as well. Some also believe in being baptized. However the main way into heaven is to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
What does this have to do with anything? Well, in the book of Leviticus (in the Old Testament) it says "you shall not lie with a man as with a woman, it is an abomination" (Leviticus 18:22) which does scream "HEY HOMOSEXUALITY IS A SIN, YOU SICK BASTARDS." but something tells me that we've all committed a crime against God, specifically from this book. Here is the whole list of things banned by Leviticus, but these are my very favorites, and I think they're also the most committed.
- Eating Fat (3:17)
-Touching an "unclean" animal (5:2) [Mind you, "unclean animals" mean camels, rabbits, pigs, moles, mice, lizards, cats, dogs, bears, lions, tigers, ect. All can be found in Leviticus, Deuteronomy, and here. It also says you can't eat unclean animals either (11:4-7), so there goes bacon. Also football is out the window, you can't touch the carcass of an unclean animal. (11:8)]
- Carelessly making an oath (5:4)
- Letting your hair become unkempt (10:6)
- Tearing your clothes (10:6)
- Going to church within 33 days after having a boy, or 66 days after having a girl (12:4-5)
- Having sex with a woman while she's on her period (18:9)
- Cursing the deaf or abusing the blind (19:14)
- Seeking revenge or bearing a grudge (19:18)
- Mixing fabric in clothing (19:19)
- Getting tattoos (19:28)
...the list goes on.You can seriously check out the whole list yourself. I'm not trying to bash any religions or religious practices; but if you've even worn a polyester cotton blend, eaten bacon, touched a football, fucked while bleeding, or held a grudge; you're just as bad as the man sleeping with another man (or a woman sleeping with another woman.)
Basically, what I'm trying to get at is; love the sinner, hate the sin. You don't have to approve of everything your friends/family do. Besides, I'm pretty sure the Bible also says "judge not lest ye be judged..." (Matthew 7:1).
Last thought, please please PLEASE don't come up to me with this "well you're just an atheist piece of shit!" stuff, because I'm not. I fully believe in a higher power. I just hate seeing something that has as much power as the bible does being put to misuse. I know your God is a God of love, I just wish more people would preach His love instead of His malice and anger. That's all.
Okay okay, my real last thought, HAPPY EPILEPSY AWARENESS DAY! Wear some purple, show your love, lets find a cure that doesn't involve brain surgery!
BECAAAAAUSE it is this huge day for equality, I've been seeing some Leviticus thrown around all willy nilly. Which pisses me off to no end. There is plenty, and I do mean P-L-E-N-T-Y of shit in Leviticus (and all of Old Testament to be honest) that we do on a daily bases that God says is "banned".
Background story time; so the book of Leviticus is found in the Old Testament of today's bible between the books of Exodus and Numbers. This was also before the birth and death of Jesus, when God appears to be very vengeful. When Jesus died, he cleared us of our sins and made the "laws" of the Old Testament more like moral guidelines for his followers. Before Jesus, you had to make sacrifices and such before you could get into heaven. After Jesus, you have to accept him into your heart (or be saved) and you're in. Some believe you have to confess or apologize for your sins as well. Some also believe in being baptized. However the main way into heaven is to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
What does this have to do with anything? Well, in the book of Leviticus (in the Old Testament) it says "you shall not lie with a man as with a woman, it is an abomination" (Leviticus 18:22) which does scream "HEY HOMOSEXUALITY IS A SIN, YOU SICK BASTARDS." but something tells me that we've all committed a crime against God, specifically from this book. Here is the whole list of things banned by Leviticus, but these are my very favorites, and I think they're also the most committed.
- Eating Fat (3:17)
-Touching an "unclean" animal (5:2) [Mind you, "unclean animals" mean camels, rabbits, pigs, moles, mice, lizards, cats, dogs, bears, lions, tigers, ect. All can be found in Leviticus, Deuteronomy, and here. It also says you can't eat unclean animals either (11:4-7), so there goes bacon. Also football is out the window, you can't touch the carcass of an unclean animal. (11:8)]
- Carelessly making an oath (5:4)
- Letting your hair become unkempt (10:6)
- Tearing your clothes (10:6)
- Going to church within 33 days after having a boy, or 66 days after having a girl (12:4-5)
- Having sex with a woman while she's on her period (18:9)
- Cursing the deaf or abusing the blind (19:14)
- Seeking revenge or bearing a grudge (19:18)
- Mixing fabric in clothing (19:19)
- Getting tattoos (19:28)
...the list goes on.You can seriously check out the whole list yourself. I'm not trying to bash any religions or religious practices; but if you've even worn a polyester cotton blend, eaten bacon, touched a football, fucked while bleeding, or held a grudge; you're just as bad as the man sleeping with another man (or a woman sleeping with another woman.)
Basically, what I'm trying to get at is; love the sinner, hate the sin. You don't have to approve of everything your friends/family do. Besides, I'm pretty sure the Bible also says "judge not lest ye be judged..." (Matthew 7:1).
Last thought, please please PLEASE don't come up to me with this "well you're just an atheist piece of shit!" stuff, because I'm not. I fully believe in a higher power. I just hate seeing something that has as much power as the bible does being put to misuse. I know your God is a God of love, I just wish more people would preach His love instead of His malice and anger. That's all.
Okay okay, my real last thought, HAPPY EPILEPSY AWARENESS DAY! Wear some purple, show your love, lets find a cure that doesn't involve brain surgery!
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Restlessness.
Hawaii decided to get pissed at me for disrespecting their state. The day after that post, I got into a fender-bender. I'm okay, the car is okay, the other drivers are spectacular, and best of all; my car insurance didn't go up!! Well, that's probably one of two great things, I also didn't get a ticket. Which is awesome.
In other news, I'm getting that "I need to change shit up" itch. Normally this itch is only satisfied if I re-arrange a room or if I do something outrageous to my hair. (or both)
I really want to renovate my guest room. By "renovate" I mean re-arrange the furniture, get rid of the bed, and turn it into a home office. I really can't "renovate" anything in base housing, at least with the normal definition, other than paint. Which I won't do. I don't know how long I'll be on island anymore and paint is like a more permanent hair-dye job. Which I dye my hair ungodly often, and a different color every time. Lawd knows what I would do to some walls if I had paint. Plus you have to get the paint approved by housing and that's a hassle I don't feel like dealing with. Oh, and you have to paint the walls back to the shitty white they are now. Matching this crap-tastic white. Not worth it.
Anyway, in my dream guest room/home office I would replace the bed with a nice futon, add my desk and bookshelf, and keep the dresser we have in there. I need to refurbish the desk and the bookshelf though. They're both old (one belonged to Ryan's dad, the other belonged to my mom) and they've been through the ringer. However, I don't think Ryan would be so gung-ho about doing this. I'd make this my little project (since my scooter is his project), and he wouldn't have to do much other than help me move things. Also it would clear the little office space I've made myself in the dining room. However, it's his family that comes to visit us, and I don't think he'd want to lose the extra bed.
I know this post means nothing to anyone, buuut I needed to get it out of my head.
In other news, I'm getting that "I need to change shit up" itch. Normally this itch is only satisfied if I re-arrange a room or if I do something outrageous to my hair. (or both)
I really want to renovate my guest room. By "renovate" I mean re-arrange the furniture, get rid of the bed, and turn it into a home office. I really can't "renovate" anything in base housing, at least with the normal definition, other than paint. Which I won't do. I don't know how long I'll be on island anymore and paint is like a more permanent hair-dye job. Which I dye my hair ungodly often, and a different color every time. Lawd knows what I would do to some walls if I had paint. Plus you have to get the paint approved by housing and that's a hassle I don't feel like dealing with. Oh, and you have to paint the walls back to the shitty white they are now. Matching this crap-tastic white. Not worth it.
Anyway, in my dream guest room/home office I would replace the bed with a nice futon, add my desk and bookshelf, and keep the dresser we have in there. I need to refurbish the desk and the bookshelf though. They're both old (one belonged to Ryan's dad, the other belonged to my mom) and they've been through the ringer. However, I don't think Ryan would be so gung-ho about doing this. I'd make this my little project (since my scooter is his project), and he wouldn't have to do much other than help me move things. Also it would clear the little office space I've made myself in the dining room. However, it's his family that comes to visit us, and I don't think he'd want to lose the extra bed.
I know this post means nothing to anyone, buuut I needed to get it out of my head.
Monday, February 4, 2013
Hawaiian Pet Peeves
All of my pet peeves about Hawaii do not stem from the state or the locals themselves. (Except the driving part. The drivers here SUCK DICK.) My pet peeves stem from everyone who wishes with their whole heart they were me living here. Let me just tell you, no, no you don't.
Yes, there are plenty of perks to living in Hawaii. The weather being a big one. It is 75 and sunny year round. Even in the winter (or rather rainy season) it's still sunny and 75 with a nice breeze. In the Hawaiian summer, its about 85-90, sunny, but no breeze so incredibly humid. Even that isn't horrible! The food here is another perk. Local food, yum. Just thinking about it makes my mouth water. Loco Mocos, Kailua Pork, STARFRUIT. OH LAWD STARFRUIT. Starfruit makes my life better.
You also have to realize, that there is a lot that Hawaii doesn't have that people take for granted. Like seasons. I know what you're all thinking, "I could give up seasons if it was 75 and sunny every day!" Yeah, I thought that too. I hate winter with a passion and I hate being cold. The best part about winter for everyone? When its OVER. When the seasons change and you see green leaves, green grass, and flowers again. When you can break out your t-shirts and flip flops. When Hawaii "seasons" change, it goes from monsooning for 2 hours every day, to misting for 10 minutes every day. THAT'S IT. No grand natural gestures, no wardrobe changes, nothing. You don't even realize the "season" changed until someone points it out.
Let's discuss the food choices too while we're at it. Do you like Italian? Chinese? Mexican? TOO BAD. Do you like burger chains like Whattaburger? White Castle? RED ROBIN?! Sorry, we don't have that either! We really don't have much in things that aren't seafood. You love seafood? GREAT. Move here. Do you like seafood chains? Sorry, no dice.
OH AND THE COST OF LIVING?! yeah, gas is at $4.30 a gallon in some places. Milk can cost as much as $9 a gallon. I'll let that sink in on its own right.
Also, lets take this onto a personal level. Are all of you, who would switch places with me in a hot minute, aware that this isn't a vacation for me? I still go to school, I'm still job hunting, and I still have a family to take care of. I didn't move here by choice and its certainly not a vacation. There is a ton here that I still haven't done because I want to share experiences with my husband but I can't because he's gone all the time. While I may have chose the military wife lifestyle, I did not choose the location. I may seem lucky to you, but I would feel lucky if I got anywhere other than Virginia Beach. I understand that these are all circumstantial reasons, but think about it in your own life. Could you afford to fill your tank at $4.30 a gallon and still buy milk and bread? Could you you handle not seeing your family for very extended periods of time because the prices to leave the island are ridiculous? Could you handle living on an island that takes only approximately TWO HOURS to drive around? (but with the amount of traffic here it can actually take up to 6-7 hours to go about 200 miles total. Yeah, we're a FLOATING CITY. It's horribly crowded. Didn't think it would be did you? did you picture grass huts? I'm sure you did.) Seems all reasonable to you now, I'm sure, but live here for a year. Or two, or seven. You'll change your mind.
My absolute biggest pet peeve, is when I complain about Hawaii, and people basically tell me there's something wrong with me. If you can bitch about any of the other 50 states, then I can certainly bitch about living in Hawaii. Shit sucks all over the world. Shit sucks here too, even if it happens to be sunny every day.
--End Rant.--
Yes, there are plenty of perks to living in Hawaii. The weather being a big one. It is 75 and sunny year round. Even in the winter (or rather rainy season) it's still sunny and 75 with a nice breeze. In the Hawaiian summer, its about 85-90, sunny, but no breeze so incredibly humid. Even that isn't horrible! The food here is another perk. Local food, yum. Just thinking about it makes my mouth water. Loco Mocos, Kailua Pork, STARFRUIT. OH LAWD STARFRUIT. Starfruit makes my life better.
You also have to realize, that there is a lot that Hawaii doesn't have that people take for granted. Like seasons. I know what you're all thinking, "I could give up seasons if it was 75 and sunny every day!" Yeah, I thought that too. I hate winter with a passion and I hate being cold. The best part about winter for everyone? When its OVER. When the seasons change and you see green leaves, green grass, and flowers again. When you can break out your t-shirts and flip flops. When Hawaii "seasons" change, it goes from monsooning for 2 hours every day, to misting for 10 minutes every day. THAT'S IT. No grand natural gestures, no wardrobe changes, nothing. You don't even realize the "season" changed until someone points it out.
Let's discuss the food choices too while we're at it. Do you like Italian? Chinese? Mexican? TOO BAD. Do you like burger chains like Whattaburger? White Castle? RED ROBIN?! Sorry, we don't have that either! We really don't have much in things that aren't seafood. You love seafood? GREAT. Move here. Do you like seafood chains? Sorry, no dice.
OH AND THE COST OF LIVING?! yeah, gas is at $4.30 a gallon in some places. Milk can cost as much as $9 a gallon. I'll let that sink in on its own right.
Also, lets take this onto a personal level. Are all of you, who would switch places with me in a hot minute, aware that this isn't a vacation for me? I still go to school, I'm still job hunting, and I still have a family to take care of. I didn't move here by choice and its certainly not a vacation. There is a ton here that I still haven't done because I want to share experiences with my husband but I can't because he's gone all the time. While I may have chose the military wife lifestyle, I did not choose the location. I may seem lucky to you, but I would feel lucky if I got anywhere other than Virginia Beach. I understand that these are all circumstantial reasons, but think about it in your own life. Could you afford to fill your tank at $4.30 a gallon and still buy milk and bread? Could you you handle not seeing your family for very extended periods of time because the prices to leave the island are ridiculous? Could you handle living on an island that takes only approximately TWO HOURS to drive around? (but with the amount of traffic here it can actually take up to 6-7 hours to go about 200 miles total. Yeah, we're a FLOATING CITY. It's horribly crowded. Didn't think it would be did you? did you picture grass huts? I'm sure you did.) Seems all reasonable to you now, I'm sure, but live here for a year. Or two, or seven. You'll change your mind.
My absolute biggest pet peeve, is when I complain about Hawaii, and people basically tell me there's something wrong with me. If you can bitch about any of the other 50 states, then I can certainly bitch about living in Hawaii. Shit sucks all over the world. Shit sucks here too, even if it happens to be sunny every day.
--End Rant.--
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Smarty Pants
Lately I've been feeling like a douche. Since starting school I have been just spouting off random facts that I gather during class to just about anyone I come in contact with. (Like how West Virginia is the 3rd fattest state! HA!) I hate sounding like a know-it-all, but I love school so much. And I love to learn. And I love all my classes. even algebra. I sincerely hope I'm not annoying the whole world, even though I'm sure I am. Somehow, in all my smarty pantsery, I have obtained TWO NEW FRIENDS at school. Granted, that brings my "School Friends" count to two, and my "Friends outside of the Armed Services" count to only one. That's okay though! The semester is young and I still haven't looked into clubs yet!
In other news, I have been completely enraptured in the idea of dying my hair purple. I'm not sure what shade or anything like that, but the idea has completely consumed my soul. I'll leave it up to a vote, if anyone cares to vote on the matter. Here are my top 5 choices on purple hair!
So go on then! Vote for it Phantom Readers!!
****All credit for these photos go to Pinterest and the following websites.****
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In other news, I have been completely enraptured in the idea of dying my hair purple. I'm not sure what shade or anything like that, but the idea has completely consumed my soul. I'll leave it up to a vote, if anyone cares to vote on the matter. Here are my top 5 choices on purple hair!
^^^^Choice One^^^^
Okay, so this isn't really purple, but I like the multicolored look.
^^^^^Choice Two^^^^^
^^^^Choice Three^^^^
^^^^^Choice Four^^^^^
^^^^Choice Five^^^^
So go on then! Vote for it Phantom Readers!!
****All credit for these photos go to Pinterest and the following websites.****
http://imgfave.com/popular/page:6?after=1352583552http://drugstoreprincess.com/post/37598334164/if-this-hair-color-was-real-it-would-be-amazinghttp://data.whicdn.com/images/47511300/550505_520469434653262_455470715_n_large.jpghttp://yeezytaughtme.tumblr.com/post/29226125884http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7dfyizc9G1rum7eeo1_500.jpg
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